Thoughts

Learning How To Shed Self Doubt

5th December 2018

A wise woman once said ‘this year is the year of like, realising stuff’ and damnit was she right. Before we get into it, can we just acknowledge my #FASHUN link to today’s subject? Shedding? Snakeskin? Good grief, look at my mind! Anyhoo, today I wanted to do a bit of a reflective post of […]

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Getting Back to Dating Basics: #LoveWithNoFilter

28th November 2018

Oh good old social media. You gotta love it huh? Social media has revolutionised the way in which we communicate with others and ingest information. From being able to talk to strangers halfway across the world by simply typing one tweet, to sharing photos of your favourite garments online to a possible audience of millions, […]

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Preaching & Practising

21st October 2018

“Hello again! It’s your friendly neighbourhood body acceptance advocate coming through to tell you yet again how important it is to love your body, and to dress unapologetically in whatever you wear.” Except sometimes, that’s not always the case. Let me give the above some context. I’ve been on this slow-ass train to self-love and […]

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“BoDY PoSiTiVitY = sToP SHOwInG oFf YouR bODy”

3rd October 2018

Oh hello there. It’s been a while (especially since posting a lingerie post!) but I thought I’d briefly speak on a topic that’s been annoying me for a while, surrounding the ever popular, Body Positivity. A lot of you may know by now that I longer consider myself a part of the current ‘body positivity […]

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Dating When Plus Sized & Dark Skinned

12th August 2018

Oh hello friends. Today I bring you a little essay/rant/thinkpiece about one of my faaavourite subjects (eurgh…): Dating when you’re not only plus sized, but also dark skinned. Disclaimer: everything you will read below is from my own personal experiences and the experiences of other plus-sized black women. It does not mean to say that […]

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Why We Build Emotional Walls.

30th July 2018

*Building walls/construction – you see how I tied in my photos with today’s subject? #CONTENT* Your walls are high because you’ve learned the hard way that you shouldn’t trust anyone who tells you what you want to hear. You shouldn’t believe anything they hear unless they can prove it. You shouldn’t imagine a relationship with […]

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The Ends.

19th July 2018

I’m what you call a ‘native South Londoner’. I was born in a South London hospital. Grew up in Battersea. Went to primary and secondary schools in South London. Moved to Croydon. Attended a College in South London. Went to a University in South London. Moved out to Denmark Hill. Moved again to West Norwood, […]

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Passing on Body Values to my Children

6th July 2018

Before you start getting excited, no I am NOT pregnant lmao. I thought I’d chat a bit about the body values I inherited as a child, and what I would want to hopefully pass down to my kids, If I should ever have them (chances are looking pretty slim at the moment, but we live […]

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